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Bris Planner

Initial Arrangements

 Contact a Mohel

• When is the anticipated date?

• How many people are you expecting? 

• Will the event be in a home, shul or hall?

• Will you serve dairy or meat?

• Will you use an event planner or a caterer?

Items that you will need to bring or prepare:

Vocht Nocht

• A copy of the ma’ammar customarily recited by the father at the bris

• Candy bags to give out to children who come to say Shema

• Section of Zohar to learn the night before the bris 

• Create a whatsapp broadcast of family and friends to invite

Bris

• Bris set – pillow, white pillow case & white baby outfit

• Copy of the Rebbe’s Letter 

• Tallis

• Wine (preferably sweet) 

• Wine & Liquor

• Bechor

• Candles & lighter

• Blanket

• Diapers

• Gauze pads

• Pacifier

Name

Child’s full name 

Father’s full name 

Mother’s full name

Kibudim

 Reading of the Rebbe’s letter

 Kvaters- a married couple (segula to have children)

 Until the Kisei shel Eliyahu

 After the Kisei shel Eliyahu

• Sandek (segula for wealth)

• After the Sandek

 Sandek Meumad

 Reading the Blessings

 Giving the name 

 Birchas Kohanim

 Benching

If you will not be using an event planner:

 There are generally three catering options.

• Everything from the set up to the clean up

 Providing the food and setting up

 Providing prepared food platters.   

Tables and Setup

Food

• Rolls or Bagels

• Main dish (fishdairy or meat)

• Salads

• Desserts

• Drinks

• L’chaim

Tables

• Table & Chair Rentals

• Tablecloths

• Serving Dishes & Utensils Paper Goods

• Plates

• Cutlery

• Cups 

• Napkins

Clean Up

• Food storage containers 

• Garbage bags

• Broom & dust pan